Whoever believes in the high divorce and separation rate today of the satisfiability of a happy and above all durable beautiful union between husband and wife? Do not show us the acquaintances and friends around us, how difficult is it to realize the dream of eternal intimate relationship? To care for each other forever, eternally to feel attracted to each other? Why is it so difficult to implement in the early euphoria and love in prospect harmonious times to work in practice? Let us, at times. What were the happy couples in the story? Can learn lessons to filter out what makes a good partnership between husband and wife? As amazing and edifying example, there is the marriage of a quirky “Miss Marple” has become world famous Margaret Rutherford mentioned. Hardly anyone knows that the great British actress and “Mr. Stringer, her assistant in the four Agatha Christie classic films of the sixties, the actor Stringer Davis, a couple in real life were. They learned to know and love the 1931 Oxford Playhouse, married 1945th This love held for up to Margaret’s death in 1972 – more than forty years. Their affection for each other could be even in the films they had shot each other feel. Stringer Davis have been played in the crime novels, the role of a courteous gentleman, and this should probably also his true nature.
This harmonious combination was certainly a successful outcome from the mixture of common interests, namely, the acting, and mutual high respect and admiration for each other. After his wife died, Stringer Davis had endured only briefly the world without them and is their one years later followed. It is thirty years ago, might be said. Since the times were different! People were less in the professional stress, had time for one another and were generally quiet! But even today there are still couples that can withstand it together longer than a few months. The literary critic Marcel Reich-Ranicki has married his wife Teofila in 1942. In the same Year in which his parents had been gassed in the extermination facility at Treblinka. He is with her one years later escaped from the Warsaw Ghetto, has gone through with it the terrible time of persecution of the Jews and the related terror. And they have always held each other – to this day.
Was it the bad experiences in the war, the welded this couple together? Here, too, probably the mutual respect and admiration for each other never diminished. In his book “My Life” he wrote in the last chapter about his wife’s a quote from Hofmannsthal: “Is a dream, can not really be that we have two together.” This love! And after sixty years! What may be the secret for these happy relations between men and women? There is applicable to all instructions provided with the long-lasting and happy success of a partnership is not well. But these positive life and love stories give reason for hope, do not fail that the combination of two different human race and the mandatory Love must fade. The recipe needs to be but probably brew every couple themselves. This requires, however, provides quite a bit of sensitivity, compromise and, above all intimate affection.
